Confusing me

Ok this Post is about John. To my understanding things were dead and over with. And I wasnt even going to IM him anymore...seeing that that ass doesnt even remember my fuckin number hahaha. So he IMs me and
he's like "How was ur day homie?"
and i was like "WTF? youre a LOSER hahaha"
"why are you calling me a loser?"
"Cause I can!!!"
"you can call me anything you want baby"
"Screw you John!"
"lol what? You know how fast you could get laid by me if you wanted to?"
"I dont care, I dont need to get laid by you, and last thing I heard you needed some since you havent gotten laid in over two weeks, and from my understanding thats too long"
"yeah I kinda figured that, why you think im trying to get you to come over"
"Like I said screw you John"
"you suck"
"I suck cause I had a lack of judgement when it came to you"
"Nah dont judge me by what i sound like over the comp, you know me well enough to not even say that"
"Well thats all Ive been seeing for a while now"
An blah blah skip to the rest...
"Nahhh you lost interest in me ever since I left town for orientation"
"Why am I going to get interest when all you going to do is leave me and go to san anton"
"Alright...thats all you shoulda said"
"i have interest, alot actually...but I started thinking about it...and it was like damn, im not going to get hooked and BAM then you leave. you might not take it like its the truth, but whatever"

And then...i was I dunno I didnt know what to say so I closed up and said that i didnt need any more explanations and I didnt mean it in a bad way and he was like "I'm not explaining i'm telling you" and then i guess he got pissed and he got offline and then he got back online (he has road runner so he probably signed out of aim until I left)

I dont KNOW how to take it...should I be all like aww he really did like me...or ARRGGHHH!!! hes an ass hahaha.